2009年1月15日 星期四

Reflection FC102 ~ Topic 3 Discussion

1. In your view, what are the three most powerful perspectives from which someone could live their life?
Trust is the foundation of all positive perspectives I will say. Trust can be as hard as iron but still a fragile as crystal. One can build everything on the base of trust but destroy it in a glance if the trust is vanished.
Action is the second powerful perspective in my point of view. Action makes changes and thus ensures the opportunity of fulfillment.
Contribution would b one of the most powerful perspectives. When thinking about contribution, one can be more creative, more accountable of one’s role, and will embrace the challenge of adventure and exploration.


2. What is a disempowering perspective you have been using lately?
Reaction is the disempowering perspective I have been using lately to slow down the movement toward the perfection of my job. I just follow the ISO requirement and avoid making mistakes.

REFLECTION FC102 ~ Topic 2

1. What would be possible if you were a master of re-framing your own perspective?
I would accept myself and enjoy my being more positively. Define challenges as blessings. Become more confident and brave to achieve what I deserve. I think I could be a active, optimistic, charming and happy person if I were a master of re-framing my own perspective.

2. What else might you need to obtain complete happiness and fulfillment?
I think I am blessed to own so much already. If I could help others and give more to those who I love, it would be even better. I need to obtain the wisdom and demonstrate the best me. That would be my fulfillment and celestial happiness.

REFLECTION FC102 ~ Topic 1

1. When have you experienced a change in your perspective? What did it take for you to change your point of view?
That was my first time to lead a virtual team for a creation workshop facilitating. Most of the facilitators were still green hands and suffering heavy duty job loadings. The preparation for the workshop was time consuming and that made me nervous about our progress. Team members presented themselves reluctantly and silently under the pressure from me. Not any creative idea was proposed in our meeting. Then I gave up pushing them and started to share my concerns about this situation and tried to elicit the thoughts from them. They broke the frozen atmosphere and continued the dialogue. When we went back to discussion, I focused more about the freedom and creation of thoughts rather than worrying about time constrain. The shift of this perspective retrieved our pleasure in sharing which we regarded as our core value and speeded up the progress.


2. How will helping your clients change their perspective make a difference in their lives?
Clients might be suffering from all kinds of fear and being controlled by their circumstance. With a different point of view, just a small step shift, they can still be aware of the situations or face the problems, but cast their fear aside, have the insight of whole picture. They may find themselves got nothing to lose. They will become more confident and dare to pursue what they want.

2009年1月12日 星期一

Reflection FC101

1. If you have previously worked in a field that is related to coaching, which of the skills you applied in that field are applicable to coaching? Which are not applicable to coaching?

I am working as a Training and Development manager in a company of IT industry. I used to take advantage of a tool named Critical Business Issue (CBI) Interview for the annual training planning. During the interview, I will ask the interviewee certain structured questions concerning about his/her goal aligned to our business mission and corporate vision, strategy to achieve the goal, and the most important, any possible issues that will disturb the achievements. Then we will work side by side to figure out what and where the resources are to leverage with. In this portion, I apply skills about active listening and goal clarifying.
Nevertheless, I also take charge of solution delivering when it comes to my professional field that what kind of training resource suits their needs best concerning the interviewee’s constraints. When some given technical areas are outside my expertise, I will say this portion being not applicable to coach.


2. When might you refer a client to a therapist or psychologist for counselling rather than continuing with coaching?
If the client appears to abandon oneself to past events or being mentally dysfunctional that refuses to look forward, it would be better referring the client to a therapist or psychologist.

3. How is coaching related to mentoring? How is it different?
Mentoring and coaching are both aimed at the growing and motivation of targets. Similar skills are applied in goal setting, strength discovering and action planning. But a mentor is usually a expert, a teacher or a role model in certain field and very experienced with the solutions or resources while a coach is not necessary being an expert in a given area. A coach is more like a partner with equal position.

4. How could a business consultant alter their business to become a business coach? What are the key differences in the services they would provide?
It would be a niche and also a limitation for the altering of a business consultant. It’s a niche because a consultant should has expertise in certain business issues with their strong knowledge base. It is also a limitation, however, the knowledge base the consultant grasp will stifled the opportunity of creative solutions, especially in the areas outside their specialty.
Asking questions rather than giving answers would be the very first step for a consultant to be a coach. Realize the situation with the client’s viewpoint. Cooperate with a client to use his/her knowledge and answers than yours instead.
The key differences in the services that a consultant or a coach provides are:
1. a consultant provides answers, solutions, judgments, analysis while a coach provides opportunities for a client to find out what mentioned above from oneself.
2. a consultant deals only with issues in a given area while a coach conducts with multiple issues in any areas which are significant influenced mutually.


5. What is meant by the saying “all coaching is life coaching after the first three sessions”? Do you agree with this statement? Why? Why not?

The saying “all coaching is life coaching after the first three sessions” means that life coaching has great influences on any other coaching. I will say, life coaching establishes the solid foundation of all coaching. Every person is an unique creature. We cannot understand one well without taking one’s life into consideration. Using the holistic approach shall help us a lot in both goal setting and action planning. Moreover, life coaching will elicit positive effects from a client to empower one’s confidence、courage and even energy of goal achieving.

2009年1月5日 星期一

Learning Plan

This is the meeting minutes recorded by Ting Huang for our learning planning.

1. Link our blogs and build up a network.
2. Each person posts one article and leaves messages to others once a week.
3. Meet on every third Sunday per month. The host would be James (Dec.), Sandy(Jan.), Tina(Feb.), Jeremy(Mar.) in turns. Host could select the meeting venue.
4. In the gathering, we would share our reflection from reading materials and attending tele-classes. We could also practice coaching in pairs or as a group.
5. Take Tony into consideration, the coaching practice would be arranged as below:
James (coach) : Jeremy + Tina (coachees)
Jeremy : Tina + Sandy
Tina : Sandy + Tony
Sandy : Tony + James
Tony : James + Jeremy
6. To reach the goal of graduating in December 2009, we set up a learning schedule for our sharing in each gathering.
1 / 18 : FC101 ~ 107
2 / 22 : AC101 ~ 107
3 / 22 : AC108 ~ 113
4 / 19 : AC201 ~ 207
5 / 17 : AC208 ~ 211, BC101 ~ 103
6 / 21 : BC104 ~ 109
July : Coaching Model + Case Study
Aug. : Research Paper
Sep. : Research Paper
Oct. : Self-assessment preparation
Nov. : Submit the assessment

2009年1月4日 星期日

WoW! That's the team!!

After enrolled for ICA CPCP, James Huang proposed the first gathering of stduents in northern Taiwan. Sandy Chang suggested a marvelous place name "Dancing Cafe". We scheduled it on 12/27 18:30. Then, the fantastic WoW learning team had the very first union.

Participants: Sandy Chan, Ting Huang, James Huang, Jeremy Chen

James shared his experience of establishing a learning organization. That is very valuable and I think James would be a great leader in this team.
Sandy told as the very powerful and practicable NLP tool. Using 5W1H questions to find out 2 difference portions in values and details. This is somewhat similar with Solution-Focused Brief Therapy.Sandy is no doubt the most resourceful person in this team.
With Tina's logical method and passionate facilitating, we worked out a practical learning plan.

It's a wondrful thing having all these partners learing together. I feel that what I am doing is re-experiencing what I value as always. So, this process is, to myself, reborn to be a more completed me in balance and harmony.

Explore & Celebrate Coaching

I joined this telseminar as the first time of my telecalss in the moring of 12/23. I was so excited that rehearsaled all kinds of circumstance in my dreams and got the laptop、microphone set、skype out all ready before the class.

ICA invited the newly graduated coaches to come together sharing their insights and experiences with coaching and coach training. The seminar was hosted by Robyn Logan, whos core value in coaching is freedom, even conscientiously arraged issues including:

  • why they decided to pursue accredited coach training
  • when they started coaching
  • how they juggled the everday demands of work, life,parenting, study
  • how did they build their confidence as a coach
  • where will they use their coaching now they have graduated
  • the number 1 piece of advice they have for aspiring coaches
We have coaches Andrea Cinnamond, Alicia Boisvert, Steve Hendon, Elsa Wohler from USA and Maria Gu from Finland joined this seminar.

Andrea Cinnamond is raising 3 kids and have completed her study in 2008, she knows how to juggle with time best.

Alicia Boisvert is an expert in Marketing. Several clients of her are kids in high school aged 9-12.

Steve Hendon is a sales manager, joined the CPCP from 2007 June. He juggles with time very well. Steve thinks USA got mature market but awful knowledge about coaching. As I propose my question about which would be the most challenging portion in ICA program, Steve comsidered being a peer coach would be most challenging.He said that managing yourself as a supportor is the very discipline that a good coach should obey.

Maria Gu is a Chiness and now reside in Finland. She got language problems before but found the handout easy to read and understandable. Well-prepared befoing joining the teleclass would helps a lot.

Elsa Wohler is from India and resides in USA. She practice life coaching adn doing yoga in a holy way. She mentioned a noun “KuPalu”, which could be interesting and worth studying. She also metioned the language problems but she thought students from ICA supported her very much.

Their generous sharing was fantastic. After this seminar, I found this the best Christmas gift from ICA and myself.

2009年1月2日 星期五

Jeremy Learns to Coach


生命具象成白紙上的圖騰 透過閱讀 溯往真理的源頭 朝聖

或許是從第一本日記簿上附註的智慧格言開始,逐漸開展了這一生的"愛智"之旅。
一路上不斷的提問,哲學的思辯論證提供部分解答,甚至成為信仰:人類最大的努力,就在於人與人之間性靈的融合,那是一種最原始而根本的激情;支持羅素生命的三個力量,也同樣深深影響著我:對知識的渴求、對愛的尋索,以及對人類苦痛無可救藥的悲憫。
然而困頓人生的入世驗證充滿許多對與對的抉擇,考驗著自己對人生的實際體悟。幾經見山是山,見山不是山,又回到見山是山的歷程,在某個清朗的午後,陽光穿透雲層,混沌心智露出孔竅直指靈明,所有疑問退到光譜的最角落,終極解答顯現出亙古的存在:一切都是為了愛。

學習只是方法,發現只是過程,生命的意義及目的在於創造。

在2008年最後一季,我開始積極接觸關於coaching的相關議題。圓夢教練Chrisse Tseng是我教練之路的領航者,幫助我找到心中的光點。引導者年會中更認識了許多有趣的Coach and facilitator,年會三個整天就像浸泡在高能量的flow裡,清楚感受到靈魂的顫動,我想我找到了天命。於是,開始號昭同好一起學習coaching,加入ICA(Internation Coach Academy)的CPCP(Certified Professional Coach Program)學程。Chrissie & Paulina給了我許多協助和鼓勵,Emily 提供了實用資訊及真誠的支持,Jenny Wang親切地分享與提問。高雄朋友的熱情和積極也給了我很大的鼓勵。當過往所有的經歷都匯集在一起,回首望去皆脈絡可循,而前路更加透明清晰;彷彿全宇宙在向我宣告,萬有正為我最高規格的展現而效力。

開跋向遠方,很感恩我的領航者 Coach Chrissie,一直以熱情與關懷為我照亮前路。也很感謝與我同行的夥伴:Tina, Sandy & James,以及高雄的朋友們,有良伴同行就不覺路遠,相信我們能彼此豐富未來的旅程,創造美好的經歷。

This Blog is named "WoW Coaching" to expect the journey of Coach Learning in ICA (International Coaching Academy) and my lifetime being interesting, exciting and somewhat challenging. With the company and inputs of all my lovely friends and the sharing of ICA students and coaches from all over the world, it would be definitely a spectacular journey.

I also leverage the concept of "pilot" that interprets a coach as a role knowing passenger's goal well and helping them find the best way to pass the dark valley and to achieve their splendid victory.

I hope that I could be a coach who is as considerate and wise as a gardener, as confident and brave as a pilot. Wow the journeys of all my companions!

It would be even fantastic having your creative ideas, constructive suggestions and worm greetings in this biog. So, welcome to WoW me with your sparkling footprints.

This is a journey and a long lasting story

一個想法開始
漸漸發展成尋索
然後有了持續的想望
於是從既定的路途出走
開跋向遠方

沒有瘋狂的追求
沉潛靈動的旅踏 如 貼近大地的漫漶溪流
給予 也接受滋養著
豐富 也被豐富著
Where to go?
路上的石子和朋友會告訴我
Quick or slow?
人潮的推擠或不捨的挽留
只要記得跟隨心跳的節奏

Passengers and the pilot wow the journey
And that's how the story goes...